I turned my YouTube comment section off for two months. I literally don’t have the time to moderate it. Just the other day I finally found a 3rd moderator after over a year of using 1 person, the same person, the only person I trust wholeheartedly and LOVE, Mark Hall. If you’ve watched enough of my videos you know about Mark. He’s the best moderator in the world. I believe because he’s been watching my channel a little over 4 years he knows me a lot better than a lot of my new viewers and subscribers.
My comment section has been back on for only 3 days. Let me just say the dumb shit picked up right where it left off. Today I want to make an example out of someone. I really am starting to believe that people don’t watch videos anymore. They just read titles and form opinions without researching first. It’s a lot of “side of the neck” talking.
My first example for today is YASMINE G. She decided to leave a comment on a livestream I did earlier. One of my mods deleted her comment.
What’s funny to me is that people post comments like this on videos about Priest. But they never post on videos I make about other things. Meaning they don’t even watch anything else on my channel. They just watch videos I make about me and Priest. Then they complain about me making videos about Priest like there isn’t anything else on my channel to watch. Think about that for a second. At the time of this post I have 169 other videos that this YASMINE G person could have commented on however she overlooked those videos completely and posted on a video about Priest. Let’s dissect her comment.
#1 She said “I’m coming to you with all due respect”
Usually when people start off a comment like that they already know they are out of pocket. They are just choosing to throw that disclaimer in front of the sentence as if that will stop my reaction from being worse than their comment.
#2 She said “Just STOP talking about your private life altogether.”
In this very video I was talking about how I DO NOT share my private life. I share 20% of my life. I’m in a whole relationship right now and haven’t said a word about him. I have 80% of a private life no one on social media knows about at all. I specifically said that in this very video she is commenting on. I spent all of 10 minutes talking about how some things aren’t other people’s business and the things that are sacred to me about Priest I won’t say.
#3 She said “It never ends in these YouTube streets even when you mean well. Someone somewhere will always use it against You. Someone will judge you. Someone will throw it back in your face.”
IDGAF. Haven’t you all learned that about me yet? Like I haven’t said 100 times over that IDGAF about being judged. Why is everyone so afraid of other people judging them. Like that shits the worse thing that has happened to me. I’ve been homeless….that shits worse than people’s opinions. I’m not going to fall apart because some people are speaking negatively about me. Fuck those people. My message isn’t for the people who criticize me. My message is for the people it helps. Everyone else is irrelevant as fuck. If I gave a fuck about what everyone thought of me on a daily basis I’d never get shit accomplished. Like these judgmental people are the only people on the planet who’s opinions matter. She’s putting too much stock into negative people.
#4 She said “Your private life and whatever happened in the past is nobody’s business”
Bittcchhhhhh thank you. That’s wtf I’ve been trying to tell everyone who keeps trying to pry into my PRIVATE business that I’m not even willing to share. You all up in 20% of my business. Leaving this comment in itself is proof. Don’t confuse a few stories I share with people to help others as my private life. If the shit was so private I wouldn’t have shared it on YouTube. Priest MALICIOUSLY posted our private text messages. Somehow people keep forgetting that. I spoke publicly about HIS WRONG DOING for a reason. 75% of the world is on reality tv or talking about their lives on Facebook AND YouTube. Vlogging the fuck out of their lives. But if Soncerae shares a story of something really fucked up that happened to her it’s oh so bad.
#5 She said “You can grow your channel and still entertain your subs without exposing much about you love life.”
How the fuck would she know?! She hasn’t watched shit outside of videos about what she classifies as my personal life. She has NO IDEA that out of the lessons I told about my relationship with Priest I have an entire life that isn’t on social media at all. She didn’t even look at anything else. She’s barely listening to me speak in the livestream itself when I talk about all of the things I refuse to share online.
And ofcourse my channel will grow. It’s been growing it will continue to grow regardless to what I discuss because people are just drawn TO ME.
#6 She said “It’s madness that a year after the relationship failed we’re still hearing about Priest and his family.”
Logically, if you are sick of hearing about some shit you’d just turn it off, right? Why would you turn to ESPN, watch that shit for a year, get sick of hearing about sports, then have the nerve to comment on ESPN’s website and say I’m sick of hearing about sports start talking about something else. Are you people serious? Unsubscribe, no one is holding your irrational ass hostage. I still talk about Priest and our family because I’m still dealing with Priest and our family. WE HAVE A BABY TOGETHER. Our situation isn’t going anywhere. Just because you tired of ESPN doesn’t mean their aren’t millions of other people still wanting to watch Sportscenter. It’s simple. WATCH SOMETHING ELSE. Stop expecting and entire channel to change FOR YOU! The fact of the matter is a YEAR is NOT a long time nor is it appropriate to LIE and say I have completely healed from a situation. I have moved on with my life. I had no choice. I have a child to take care of. But contrary to popular belief I DATE. Moving on is NOT the issue. However I still have things I have to deal with. The truth is I NO LONGER HAVE ROMANTIC FEELINGS FOR PRIEST. Just because I let go of the past doesn’t mean the past let go of me. I’m an adult. A year later I still have to deal with residual consequences of choices I made. They don’t just go away in a year. Grow the fuck up. Don’t immaturely believe that that’s more than enough time for something this serious to be over with. WE HAVE A CHILD TOGETHER. It won’t be completely over for another 17 years!
Where are your comments on these other videos and posts about you being sick of them criticizing and judging Soncerae? Nowhere. How the fuck is it ok for everyone to judge me but not ok for me to be me? You stop.
#7 She said “That would make any new love interest RUN for the hills.
Then dumbbell that would mean that that man aka new love interest isn’t for me. I want someone who wants me for me. If he doesn’t like what I post on YouTube. FUCK HIM. I don’t want a weak conditional nigga. That’s what Priest was. I want a strong unconditional grown man who has more sense than that. Not a coward who runs. What part of I’m involved is she overlooking? Ohhhhhh yeaahhhh I forgot, I haven’t shared my PRIVATE ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP! I’ve kept it to myself!!!!!!!! I told people I’m dating and that’s all I’ve said. See what happens when you keep your business to yourself? People don’t even realize you are keeping your business to yourself!!!!! Any man interested in me will know the story of my son’s father and I. I wouldn’t just leave him in the dark.
#8 She said “If you’re gonna let it go, just let it go. Don’t just say you moved on, just MOVE ON.”
Y’all see how Yasmine G ain’t catch the memo. You will never be able to define how a person moves on or heals from a situation. I took the first step in moving on when I moved 2,000 from GA to CA during my pregnancy 4 weeks after we broke up. I GOT THE HELL ON WITH A QUICKNESS! It’s been a year NOT 7. My son is only a year old. I am just now starting to be stable. Priest and I are still dealing with our situation like that shit was yesterday. If he moved on fully our conversations would be different. This entire situation would be different. It’s HIM having the hard time moving on NOT ME. I have been begging this man to let go of the relationship and focus on our son since the day he left and he still has not managed to do it. If it would have been done child support would be paid right now and he would’ve actually met Justice. Your definition of moving on and mine are not identical. Do not ask me to do something that runs parallel with your life when we have two very separate paths. I have a new life. I am happy. I have a new car, house and baby. I am living an amazing life and I have said that over and over and over and even showed that. Just because I share my experience with others doesn’t mean I’m holding on. It means I am sharing how I moved on. You can’t accept that click the fuck off the channel.
My commentary about my life is NOT about me holding on to HIM. It’s not about HIM. It’s about myself AND the others I care for. My experience is a huge part of who I am. I’m talking about what I’m doing to move forward. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM! You’d know that if you watched me enough. Not just tuning into videos about Priest.
The fact of the matter is a YEAR is NOT a long time nor is it appropriate to LIE and say I have completely healed from a situation. I have moved on with my life. I had no choice. I have a child to take care of. But contrary to popular belief I DATE. Moving on is NOT the issue. The truth is I NO LONGER HAVE ROMANTIC FEELINGS FOR PRIEST. Just because I let go of the past doesn’t mean the past let go of me. I’m an adult. A year later I still have to deal with residual consequences of choices I made. They don’t just go away in a year. Grow the fuck up. Don’t immaturely believe that that’s more than enough time for something this serious to be over with. WE HAVE A CHILD TOGETHER. It won’t be completely over for another 17 years!
#9 She said “I have been dumped before (thankfully not with a baby) and I know it’s easier said than done but moving on will FREE you.”
Baby doll, I AM FREE. So is PRIEST. I have spoke about this FREEDOM more than once over and over. I have an amazing life that I speak about all of the time that you have overlooked. You too busy only looking at videos of me reflect and teach about my mistakes and past pain. YOU DO NOT WATCH MY POSITIVE CONTENT. Yes, thank GOD that you didn’t get dumped during pregnancy it’s much harder to overcome. YOU WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND. YOU are not ME. Your assumptions about where I stand are foolish. How you choose to move on and how I chose to are two very different ways. YOU were dumped before so you can relate. There are women who were dumped too….PREGNANT and they can relate. The difference between you and THEM is my message applies to them NOT YOU. Why are you watching material that doesn’t apply to you? Watch content on my channel that applies to you. It’s more than enough content on it.
#10 She said “No matter what you said, we can see you still holding on.”
SPEAK FOR YOUR DAMN SELF. NOT THE WORLD! Who the fuck is WE? You and my haters? You and my critics? You and the people who are sick of hearing about Priest and I? I get emails, DMs and comments from people that share a completely different perspective than you. DO NOT be arrogant enough to believe that because you assume I’m having a hard time letting go that that’s the truth. I spoke my truth and always have. Don’t take pieces of my message and hear it to be true then take other pieces you disagree with and consider it a lie. You can’t handle the truth then quit listening to me. Or absorb the entire message. The bigger picture. I’ve moved on. I am FREE. I spoke about why I wanted to hold on initially. I am NOT in the same position I was in last year. I’m sorry that you are. Had you been paying more attention to my message and other content you would probably be able to see how far I’ve come. But you only click on shit that has to do with Priest.
My advice to everyone is WATCH my videos before you comment. People only reading titles and not watching content all the way through is one of tge reasons why I cut the comment section off. People read the comments first and then decide whether they want to watch the video or not. It’s a shame that you started off this comment talking about people judging me. Like that’s important to me. If you are afraid to move how you want to move because you worried about critics then that’s your choice but that is not me. I wouldn’t have even been able to be a content creator at all if I cared about what people thought of me. People and their opinions annoy me but slightly. It will never be enough to stop me from being me. I have this Soncerae shit under control. Don’t you ever come on my platform and try to tell me how to do me. I do what I want and I say what I want and only I know ALL OF THE FACTS about me.
I will talk about Priest for 300 more years if it will help other women not get in my situation ever again. I will put a bullhorn to my lips and tell my own story whenever I want to because the shit belongs to me. I can do whatever the fuck I want to do with it without your permission. People can twist my words all they want to, that shit doesn’t matter. It doesn’t change the truth and the truth will always be what I tell. I give relationship advice and I use my experience as a way to show people I UNDERSTAND. People who want the truth about me can come to me. The people who want the bullshit can come to you. No one can tell my story, teach my lessons or live my life better than me. You are in no position to try to correct my position. I trust the universe my source of guidance. I feel good everytime I share my story. Fuck you for telling me to sweep under the rug some fuck shit, when speaking about it helps sooo many people. I’m ready for the hard conversations. You wanna be selfish… do it. I want to help others so I do it. That’s my lane. Find yours.
If you don’t like what I say in my videos STOP WATCHING THEM! Don’t tell me to change my content to appease you when I have plenty of people who love my content.