How To Get Revenge on Deadbeat Baby Daddies

Fathers come in all forms. There are some really good fathers out there. Then there are some out there who don’t even acknowledge that they have children. Handling “baby daddies” has become a severe issue in recent years. Being as though single parenting has become extremely popular. It’s widespread for women to use children as a weapon to exact revenge against the ex during, and after, divorce proceedings or breakups.

Just because two people have sex and the woman has a child does not indicate that the man who contributed is a father in anything but the technical definition of the word. It just means that his penis works. – Rebel Circus

There is a misconception that the only time a man abandons a child is if he and the woman he conceived a child with were never married. When the truth is most of the single mothers I have come in close proximity with are divorced. A woman can marry a man and still when he decides to leave she can still go through an emotional rollercoaster with him as if they never agreed to terms and conditions of matrimony. When some of these men decide to start a new family with another woman they leave their ex wives and children completely behind, as if they do not exist. Men have displayed this behavior for decades now. This isn’t a new age problem. Men have been digging wholes they weren’t prepared to jump in for years.

Bring up the fatherless epidemic in the United States, and the arguments are as diametric and unrelenting as bipartisan politics.

It is either:

  1. Men are irresponsible douchebags who abandon their children to mothers, who are left to raise the children with few resources, or

  2. Women are conniving, malicious, entitled nut-jobs who alienate fathers from their children while taking all said fathers’ money — all of which is supported by the family court system. – Emma Johnson

I talk about these issues inside of the community often on my podcast THE GODQUEEN LIVE

Most women would have chose better role models for their children. Most women want strong providers. A man not taking care of his children financially is only 1 sign that a man is a deadbeat. There are several other signs that a Father is a deadbeat. Please, let me explain.

  1. He breaks promises. He doesn’t know how to execute any plans or goals. It’s one thing to say you want to be a father. Or even be excited during a pregnancy but it’s another to actually wake up every morning day in and out investing time and energy into a tiny human being.
  2. He never holds himself accountable and blames why he doesn’t provide for his children on everyone else. Most of the people in his life enabled him so taking responsibility for any of his issues would be too complicated of a task.
  3. He acts carefree, like he doesn’t have children at all. This is a sign of immaturity. He hasn’t grown up. Progress is an important part of becoming an adult. If a man still has the same behavior he had 2 years ago and he hasn’t improved, then you can rest assured that this person is not someone you can depend on.
  4. He downplays your accomplishments as a mother. You may be out here handling things on your own. Your kids are well taken care of. Buying your dream car or home. Starting your own business or getting a college degree. Somehow he’ll make it seem like these things are so easy to do. Even though he hasn’t accomplished those things himself. You have managed to become successful without him and that’s a hard pill for a man to swallow.
  5. He didn’t make you a better person during the relationship. When you are in a good partnership the person you are tied to helps you grow. He challenges you to be the best version of yourself possible. Deadbeats make your life more complicated. You experience more drama and hardships.
  6. He never has a straight answer for anything nor can he make a solid decision. He is a master of psychological games and manipulation. He talks in circles so much it makes you want to give up on adult conversation altogether and just get silent.
  7. He surrounds himself with the wrong friends or crowd. Most of the people a deadbeat hangs around are enablers. There is no one around him to tell him he’s making poor decisions. If you have low life standards the people around you have low life standards as well.
  8. He doesn’t take care of his own issues. These kind of men lack any sense of personal responsibility. He overlooks his own problems and expects everyone else to solve them. Keeping a steady job, a car or paying a mortgage seems to much of a responsibility for him.
  9. He procrastinates. This is why he has not accomplished much. Putting things off until the last minute or giving up on things that may be challenging is a display of laziness, It’s a character trait that most men who are deadbeats have. They always believe that they have time to waste.
  10. He’s petty. Yes, extremely. He thinks it’s cute. He was coddled most of his life. Don’t let you be the one to put your foot down. He’ll try to convince the world that you are the devil incarnate. He has contributed nothing worth mentioning to society let alone his relationship with his children but he still wants the world to believe he is God’s gift to you.

Now that we have established what a deadbeat dad is now we have to focus on how to deal with one. Learning how to deal with the curse of a deadbeat dad is seemingly as difficult as cracking the Davinci Code. I’m going to share with you the advice most people would give you as far as how to deal with these deadbeats. Then I’m going to tell you how I deal with my sperm donor.

They say: Stop putting up with his incompetence. If you have enough patience to deal with the unintelligent you can baby step him through it. I personally don’t have time for that shit. Especially when I am dealing with a grown ass man. He is not a toddler or a puppy. I have a child to raise. I can’t be my ex’s mom too. That was his mother’s job.

They say: Offer him visitation rights for the right price. To me that attempt will be unsuccessful. Most deadbeats don’t want to see their kids anyway. They aren’t going to want to willingly pay to see them. Some deadbeats pay child support so they won’t look like a complete disgrace.

To me it’s a cop out or some type of pay off. Some type of QUID PRO QUO unsaid arrangement where a deadbeat obviously isn’t going to be around his children mentally, emotionally, spiritually or physically but he’ll cough up chump change because it’s the least he can do. It is not about what you can or can’t do for yourself and your baby or what you do and don’t need. A portion of his earnings are owed to your child. Child support is the business side of separate parenting and should be addressed in a business manner. It’s nothing personal.

I didn’t want to put my son’s father on child support. He asked for it. I would have preferred him just being there for his son. Being able to see him when he wanted. Loving him. Taking pictures when he wanted. Going on vacation with him. I can’t live without my son’s hugs. It’s unfortunate that his father can’t experience that. They’ve never even met. Filing for child support got me that DNA test I wanted. I wanted to prove to everyone that he was lying about not being our son’s father. He knows he is his Father. He knew when I was pregnant. The DNA test was unnecessary on one side of the coin but a requirement on the other. As much as I hate the concept of child support, I filed. Not wanting to be an active participant in your child’s life does not alleviate the financial responsibility of having children. For either parent. I don’t need his money nor do I want it. That money isn’t mine it’s my son’s. I’m not going to get in the way of that.

For more resources on how to become financially stable as a single mom go to

Sometimes I think he makes our situation as complicated as possible because he wanted me to be the woman who still wanted a romantic relationship with him. But he turned me off during my pregnancy once he begin acting like he didn’t want to be a father to our child. It was unattractive. I don’t want someone that has blatantly said that they don’t want me for starters. I also think men who are non existent in their child’s life or are abusive to them do not deserve to breathe the same air I do. So imagine my surprise when the father of my child turned out to be that man. I had no problem letting him go. He wanted to leave. I wanted him to. My issue was never because of him wanting to leave me. My issue was that he waited until I was 5 months pregnant to decide he didn’t want to be a father. The issue is he abandoned US, leaving US to die in a roach motel while I was severely ill and in a high risk pregnancy. During tough times or challenges you don’t run like a bitch. You suit up and display the strength of a warrior.

They say: Ask him what he wants.

I did that…..good luck with getting a straight answer out of him.

A lot of men think that their “baby mommas” are women who wish they can still be with the fathers of their children. I was not interested. So the more I showed a lack of interest the more he tries to convince the world that I am not over him. When the truth is I never showed any sign that I still wanted to be in the relationship. Once he told me he wanted to get back with his ex, I was disgusted. I wasn’t about to play tug a war with another chick over d–k. I don’t have the patience for all of that. Now, It is very possible for him to love our child and not care a thing about me. I get it. Some women don’t. It may hurt to hear that for some but, it’s true. So far he hasn’t shown that that’s the case. He’s actually using our son as a pawn. He’s taking his frustrations out on our son by not being there for him because of his disdain for me. He doesn’t have to care about me but he will respect me. As the mother of his child and a human being. Or I simply won’t allow him to be around.

Some men can be manipulative—especially men who know it is in their best interest to keep custodial and child support payment arrangements outside of the courts by making a deal with you. So, what do they do? Say whatever they need to say to keep you satisfied—not happy but not angry enough to file papers either. If you want him to be your man, he’ll pose as a makeshift boyfriend. Don’t let your desperation to “fix” the situation or “make it right” turn you into a sucker for the okie-doke. – Nicole Williams

I don’t talk bad to my son about his father. Kids grow up and see on their own who the problem is or was. I don’t dare make excuses for his ass either. My son will know that I do NOT play and I was not for the drama and lies when it came to co-parenting. I don’t want my son to resent me. So I won’t be the one to share with him that his father is a deadbeat. I’ll let my son decide with time how he feels and what he thinks about his father. I’m not even going to waste my energy painting a negative picture of him. I’ve shamed his father publicly. Mainly because he publicly humiliated me. So I had no choice but to clap back. I stand my ground with all 10 toes. It was part of me holding him accountable for his foolishness and I don’t regret it. Regardless to how much backlash I received from his enablers. They may not tell him where he did wrong but he gonna get in line messing around with me. He’s gonna be a grown man in my presence or he can keep his distance. I won’t settle for less.

So how do you deal with a deadbeat dad? Sorry honey but….ya don’t. Do without the drama. Let him be some other woman’s problem. I knew how he behaved once I was in my 6 month of pregnancy that he was going to be a deadbeat. He changed drastically. The man that was once excited I was pregnant had now become an ass. He knew it was all or nothing to me. I wasn’t going to allow a one foot in one foot out operation. He knew I wanted us to be a family. A complete one. We were on our way down the aisle. The plans were to be married then have children. God laughed at that plan and gave me a miracle baby that I thought was going to only be conceived once I found the right fertility clinic.

I’ve learned that you can’t change the way a person feels or what a person thinks about their children. When a person is severely damaged themselves they can’t even see the damage they cause in the lives of others. I’ve been fair. All I’ve asked for was his presence. Not for me to be placed on a pedestal. I do not feel a sense of entitlement. Apparently, I didn’t mean much to him before I gave birth or considering dumping me for his ex wouldn’t have been an option. (FYI he didn’t truly dump me for her. He was just using that as an excuse to end the relationship. They never did get back together. They claim to still be good friends though.) He chose her over his child. He has her respect as a man not mine. He’ll never get friendship out of me. I’ll only respect him if he chooses to be a better father to our son. How any woman can respect him abandoning a child is beyond me. I don’t want much from him at all. However, I do demand a level of respect for being the mother of his child. Since he doesn’t have an ounce of human decency to provide that, I rather not deal with him at all. It’s a boundary I set. I will not allow a man to disrespect me in front of my children. Period. I will not do that to him so I will not tolerate that from him.

Continue to be a supportive and loving mom to your child. One great parent is better than having having two parents with one of the two being emotionally unattached to the child.

Minimize contact.

If it’s not about our son I really don’t have shit to say.

Establish boundaries. Do not entertain foolishness.

I deserve respect. He can’t give it then he will not be allowed to be around.

Do not feel sorry for your children.

Children deserve someone in their life who wants to be there. No sense in feeling sorry for your children because some deadbeat doesn’t want to be there. Does it make any sense to value a deadbeat? If he was father of the year then I could see you feeling sorry for your kids about his absence. I’m happy that my son has a healthy environment.

Be non emotional and logical.

As much as I can’t stand my son’s father I do NOT allow that to determine how I co-parenting with him. Husband or boyfriend is a different role than Father. Just because he was a terrible boyfriend to me doesn’t automatically make him a bad Father.

Teach emotional intelligence, healthy communication and positivity in your home.

That way toxicity and negativity will not be tolerated or introduced to your children by anyone in your household.

Do not argue with him.

I pretty much refuse to argue with my son’s father. He’ll get hung up on. I’ll excuse myself before I speak to him aggressively. I entertained 1 conversation with him since the birth of his son where we both lost control. Never again. I don’t have time for that. Arguments include emotions. Emotions that are not even worth addressing. Simply because they have nothing to do with our child. Since I’m logical I find it unnecessary to address emotional things or to fling insults. I’m not about to sacrifice years of happiness battling with an ex, trying to convince him to make contact with his own kid. That conflict can damage my child if he ever saw us do that in front of him.

On my YouTube Channel I promote that #SINGLEMOMLIFE It’s about empowering women to live positive healthy lives even though they are single. I am still a great mom even though my son’s father abandoned our son. My son will still grow up well rounded. I do not want to seek revenge on the father of my child. He doesn’t have that much power over me. I refuse to allow him to continue to rent space in my mind.

People who seek revenge instead of forgiving or letting go, tend to feel worse in the long run. Do you really want to waste your precious time on someone that doesn’t deserve it? Think of all the fun things you could be doing instead. Whether you believe in it or not, karma makes a much better friend than foe – make sure to keep on the right side of it. IF youseek revenge on the person who hurt you and they then take revenge on your revenge.. the cycle continues. Make sure you don’t get caught in a loop, it will only cause you further pain and hurt. It’s not worth it. MOVE ON. A better man will come and help you forget all about him. Stepfathers and good husbands are REAL. Don’t let the deadbeats fool you.

Dedicated To My Trolls – The Daily Purge Has Now Commenced

My favorite rumor being spread about me right now is… my son doesn’t have a bed. I know right! LOL Where do people get this s*** from? My son has a bed and a playroom. He is happy and well taken care of. I went from being pregnant and homeless to living like the Queen I am all before my son turned 1 and the best rumor these idiots can come up with has something to do with furniture? I will sleep on a bed of hot coal to make sure my kids are good. They live better than me. So many rumors have been spread about me for so many years. Now to the point that I don’t even care. What others think of me is unimportant nor is it my business. It’s a distraction. I simply just have other things I’m more concerned about. Like my money, my career, survival… you know… s*** that matters.

I know it’s a hard pill to swallow for those who hate me, loved to watch me be homeless and are now watching me improve my life and live it full of luxury and privilege. They assumed I’d be stuck in an extended stay hotel broke, heartbroken, abandoned and pregnant forever. Now that I’ve moved on with my life, I’ve noticed that a lot of people on social media have not. I have got to stop saying social media when really it’s just YouTube. Only YouTube. No other place am I trolled so severely.

I want to express my opinions freely so of course I understand that doing so begets criticism. I’m a tough cookie. IF I wasn’t prepared for backlash I wouldn’t have stayed on YouTube this long. I’m so nonchalant about what others have to say that I can’t stand when people say “keep my name out your mouth.” Like that has ever made someone shut the f*** up. I think that statement has only made some people stop talking loud about you and start whispering instead. Emphasis on some. I only prefer that people are honest but life experience has shown me that most people can’t do that. They have too much ignorane, self hate pride and ego to do so.

Trolling is not some new phenomenon. But I realize that a lot of people are annoyed by it just like I am especially on my YouTube channel. After a while I begin to heavily moderate my channel because the trolling was getting out of hand. Certain topics that people would speak about in my comment section would make a video or live stream become demonetized. Not only was I getting sick of seeing people arguing I noticed that most of the time it was trolls versus intellects. The trolls were only posting defamatory slurs or threats, lies or trigger words for entertainment purposes. Trying to be funny and s***.

I’ve created a lot of different channels on YouTube none of which we’re welcoming to trolls. I realize that a lot of people who are trolls just want to be heard and understood. Me ignoring them damn near hurt their feelings. What they desperately wanted was to get my attention. Then there were people out there who just wanted to criticize me. Claiming that they are exposing me. Telling everyone they know the truth about me as if they met me. I’m sure the same person who lied and said my son doesn’t have a bed is the same person who claims they are exposing me. Guess where they are exposing me at? On my own YouTube channel.

Not my main channel.

SonceraeFan #singlemomlife

But another Channel I created called:

The GodQueenLive Podcast.

Which is simply a place where all of my podcasts are uploaded. And guess what…. I left the comment section wide open. I purposely do not moderate the comment section. I purposely do not read the comment section. Part of the reason is because I don’t have time to. But the main reason is so that anyone who feels like they want to express their opinion whether they are trolling or not can openly elaborate about what they think over there. Posting disrespectful comments on my main Channel will not be tolerated. Simply because it’s a professional channel that is more about family healthy communication and positivity. There is more than enough dysfunction online. I just don’t want it in my home or in my space. I do understand that by being in the public eye or on social media in general I have to deal with the opinions of others. Again, I am not offended by criticism. I am more concerned about avoiding harassment, stalking, trolling, disrespect, racism, sexism, misogyny and controversial trigger topics. Most of the people who have taken the time to comment negatively about me as much as they have lack critical thinking skills. They barely think anything through long enough to be able to make solid judgment about me or anything that I am doing or saying. Those topics I discuss as far as the black community or topics that they bring up inside of my comment section not only destroy any chance of advertising being on a good video they also disturb my community of supporters who are there to participate in healthy dialogue with other true supporters.

The God Queen Live podcast YouTube channel is there for people who lack the discipline required in order to have healthy dialogue. None of us can escape those who want to troll it’s inevitable. Even in the real world we have to deal with assholes. The actual podcast is entertaining, insightful and informative but of course the trolls who listen to it on YouTube will always beg to differ. Because the purposes behind why they come in the comment section speaking negatively of me and thumbs down everything has more to do with them wanting to vent out their own frustrations. They use that channel as a punching bag. Their words hold no power. I don’t take it personal. I think I used to. It’s hard to take any of them serious. What they do only has meaning if I assign meaning to it. What they attempt to do to me is tunneled into the spam folder of my life.

The solution to this is simple. I’ve deleted and blocked liars so many times on my main channel I’ve lost count. I will continue to delete and block so that my main Channel is a place for those who support me not those who want to spread hate or lies about me. S***’s called soncerae fan not soncerae hate. I had to separate the two crowds. The low-energy crowd fellowships on the God Queen live podcast YouTube channel. There they gossip, lie, manipulate, be messy, rude and disgusting. Meanwhile the high-energy crowd fellowships on my main Channel. There they listen to each other, have healthy dialogue, speak positively, honestly and are respectful to me and each other. EVEN DURING DISAGREEMENT. My channels…my rules. I’m the beginning and end on both platforms.

What channel you spend most of your time on says a lot about who you are. All I know is I refuse to let these idiots f*** up my money. So they can get away with saying whatever it is they are saying on The GodQueen live because I allow it. Most people can look at that channel and see who the trolls are. They can see that the problem are those people who participate in tearing another person down. Smart people can spot ignorance. They can see the difference. Not everybody walking around these YouTube streets being stupid.

I’m unbothered. Not worried one bit. I’m out here capturing that good energy baby. I let the haters hate. I let the gossipers gossip. I’m in control. The more they comment, the more they engage, the most subscribers I get, the more money I make. I am a business woman those haters who comment the most on The God Queen Live channel are my employees and they better stay on they job.

They just dumb enough to believe it’s all entertainment.

Soncerae Plays Internet Games with Priest’s Family 😱

So someone was stupid enough to send this to my cousin Shunna and actually believed she’d buy into it. How did they even get Shunna’s phone number? I never posted her number her last name or images anywhere. The only people who could have given out Shunna’s info was my son’s father or his ex wife.

My cousin knows me better than any troll from the internet. She knows I have never posted her pictures online and she knows I’d never say anything negative about her. I love my family. Period.

I just posted this blog about this foolishness yesterday.

So whoever this was from YouTube who was texting Shunna from a fake number jokes on you. Her I and Julia have better shit to do than entertain madness. You can’t convince people that I’m messy when I’m not. You texting her to begin with was YOU starting a mess. She knows better. Everyone in my family does. You can’t use my family against me. You can’t use my son’s family against me either. Shunna knows I will do anything for her. So nice try but the tricks on you.

LaVonya Edwards Is At It Again

I’ve always talked about how supportive some of my son’s family members are. My son’s father isn’t the best father in the world but he has some family members that are very positive and drama-free. I’ve mentioned these two women Aunt Julia and cousin Shunna a couple of times on my YouTube channel. Shunna asked to be on my channel with me a few times and I told her no. I didn’t want her harmed. Then one day we decided to do a live stream to smooth things out between me SaDonya and Priest. We wanted to do something positive. Talk about sisterhood and love. But hours before we could even do that SaDonya participated in a hateful live stream with geriatric troll LaVonya Edwards AKA Bomb Cherry. This was SaDonya’s 3rd time on Youtube discussing me, months before her 4th. SaDonya, claiming she wants to stay out of internet drama and clear her name, was allowing herself to be interviewed by people who have an obvious disdain for me. If you want peace with someone or to stay dramafree the last thing you’d do is interact with said person’s enemies. She wants the world to believe she is being bullied by me but keeps provoking me. She chose these people to interact with purposely. It is NOT coincidence. It disappointed Shunna and I so we decided to no longer do the live stream. But of course Shunna and I still have a positive relationship and Aunt Julia still supported my son. Even gifted my son for his birthday. I will always have a level of respect for these two women because they care for my son.

One of the reasons why I adore Shunna is because she is such a good mother. Not only has she survived brain surgery she has endured a great deal of pain as of recently. She lost someone she loved so deeply and still managed to stay strong through it. I have so much love for her and it won’t fade with time. She is my cousin who feels like my sister. She welcomed me with open arms and no judgments. Her sense of humor is the best part about her. I laugh out loud every time we talk. I also talk to her children. They are all always so kind to me.

Aunt Julia encouraged me to be kind and compassionate. She suggested I be mature and patient with Priest and SaDonya. She has never disrespected me and is a really good listener. She was the first person from Priest’s family to acknowledge my son without needing a DNA test. She knew when she saw Justice that he was Priest’s son. She was generous and showed genuine care for my son. She was the first family member of Priest’s to openly gift my son.

It saddens me to say that unfortunately my adoration for them has been used as a tool to cause more drama. People trying to use my own family against me says a lot about the climate of this country. There are people out there who have nothing to lose. They have no family. No respect for boundaries and know nothing about long lasting love.

Today Lavonya Edwards took to her Youtube channel and maliciously posted pictures of Julia with her husband along with pictures of Shunna. Accusing ME of exposing them. How does that makes sense in this demented troll’s mind? She’s posting their pictures, first and last names but its ME exposing them? How? People like this continue to cause harm to me then tell the world I started something with the. The title of the video reflects her obsession with my vagina.

That’s so sad. Priest and SaDonya trusted LaVonya Edwards on numerous occasions. When I advised them both not to. Yet they did it anyway and now Priest’s innocent family members are being exposed. Not because of anything I did. Two people who never said anything negative about anyone are being misused and exploited just so an insecure elderly whore can receive social acceptance online. I’ve mentioned Priest’s family members including his sister who was mean to me. His mom who I loved until I found out she deceived me. As well as Priest’s brother and Grandmother who were both kind to me. However, I would never post pictures of ANY them or reveal their first and last names. It’s unnecessary.

The question is how did LaVonya Edwards get images or info about either of these women without me releasing any of their personal information? She didn’t get it from me. I can barely stand the broad. I’d never give that bimbo information about anyone. The only way she could’ve got this information was from Priest or SaDonya.

LaVonya Edwads is one nasty webcam porn phone sex hoe who has been stalking me for too long. I have way to many blog entries discussing how she harasses me online. I’m sorry but frankly bitches over 45 are supposed be baking cookies, enjoying Grandkids and loving life. Not trolling on the internet. LaVonya continues to try to escape from her loveless open marriage by using me as a person to severely criticize and degrade.

This is the foolishness I have to deal with on a regular from complete strangers who will do anything for attention. Then guess who wass in the livestream spreading lies….Minister Jap….. Why am I not surprised. The butthurt loudmouth is most likely the ring leader behind why my son’s father ended up doing an interview with Tommy Sotomayor. Priest is so dumb. Not even realized he is being used by the very man who encouraged me to break up with him. The very man who wished he could take his place.

Yes….that clown….still trying to push the false narrative that my daughter is pregnant. She is NOT pregnant. She is a virgin.

During the stream while a picture of Aunt Julia and her husband is malisciously posted Minister Jap says when my daughter first came to Cali she visited Planned Parenthood. What a moron. She never visited one. She knows about them because teens are taught they exist from their Health teacher in High School. Also they are in affluent neighborhoods here in California. We see them here all of the time. My daughter has never been pregnant. My daughter has never had sex.

On top of that someone from a blocked number called my daughter’s father yesterday claiming my daughter is in danger and it’s because I’ve doxxed people. Doxxed is a famous term trolls use on YouTube. I’ve heard that bullshit term used nowhere else. My daughter’s father had no idea what it meant. This FEMALE troll told him I post people’s addresses and SSN. The only person who keeps accusing me of that is this woman. All that digging LaVonya Edwards did to find Shunna and Julia. I’m sure she put that same energy into finding my daughter’s father. But if someone was to do any of this to her she’d be crying victim. The second someone shows her this same disgust in return she’ll be somewhere crying her eyes out.

My daughter’s father moved out of Atlanta and retired from IT & Telecom. Leave him alone. He out in the world finding peace. He is doing the kind of field work he really enjoys. He deserves it. He’s been sitting behind a computer for decades. Now he helps me with my clothing line Yahaura.

This is so sad to me. It gets worse. Inside of this livestream she is spreading another ridiculous rumor that was started by another content creator.

I would never harm my children. I was never beat up during my pregnancy nor did I inflict pain on myself during that time. If I truly didn’t want my son so badly that I wanted him no longer alive I would’ve simply got an abortion not punch myself in the stomach. When are y’all gonna stop with this stupidity? Never? Ok I’ll do you one better and detach myself from the bullshit.

I will continue to post any nonsense that includes stalking or harassment of any kind that I am aware of so that authorities can keep up with this stuff.

Check out my latest livestream about this issue.

SaDonya, Ex Wife, Move on and MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!!!

My son deserves better than what he is getting from his father. His father’s performance record is low partially because a jealous ex of his won’t move on with her life. All I asked was for Priest to father our son all of this other drama SaDonya seems to keep starting online is childish and unnecessary. These 2 people are divorced how the fuck does it make sense that these 2 are anywhere together discussing me and my son?

This mugshot having battle ax needs to stay in her lane. Which is the lane furthest from me. She keeps tempting me. I will do anything for my son. She keeps causing harm to him by whispering bullshit into his father’s ear and I’m losing my patience. I want this bitch out of me and my son and his father’s life. That’s what divorce does.

My son’s father is not to bright. He continues to make poor choices under the manipulation of this woman. Our son deserves better.

She keeps trying me. Pressure bursts pipe and if she keeps coming for me and my family this will escalate unnecessarily.

Struggle Love: Black Women Can Be Happily Single & Financially Free

This morning I did a podcast about some of the comments I receive on YouTube when my Spreaker podcast is automatically uploaded to it. I have YouTube channel called The GodQueenLive Podcast that is solely for audios of my show The GodQueenLive. Here is the link to the episode I did this morning:


Inside of this podcast I spoke about how I burned through a million dollars by having an entourage or staff with me everywhere I went. I had a staff to pay. I paid for VIP Sections, Bottles of liquor, food, transportation, hotel stays, photographer & make up artist fees. I bought clothes. I also paid car notes, mortgages and rent for some of these people. During the podcast I said that I’d post images of me to show how big my entourage would be everywhere I went. I’d always have at least 5 other people with me. I’d make sure they ate free and drank as much as they wanted to. THAT COSTS MONEY! LOTS OF IT!

What led me to talk about this was a comment someone left under a photo I posted of me and my 1 year old son. I spoke about how happy I was. How I am finally financially stable and I’m living the life I want. I also spoke about how my child support payments are low because I make so much money.

This is what he posted:

As if a woman can’t be happy and financially stable without a man. My situation is the perfect example of me turning lemons into lemonade. However because I do NOT have a man this idiot assumed I must be struggling. Even though the post he commented under said that I was doing well as a single mom. People want to believe so desperately that single mothers don’t amount to much. There is this stigma placed on us that if we did not MARRY before we had children, we will be doomed. That is not the case for me. I am doing pretty well without the help of my son’s father.

The struggle was real when I was dating my son’s father. We ended up living in extended stays and for some time sleeping in the back of his Ford Explorer.

People blame me for this. When all of this was his idea. 

He was using me for money. Without me implying anything at all, he assumed I was a millionaire. He assumed I was a celebrity YouTuber who would take care of him financially. Of course I am always talking about how financially stable I am when I’m able to work. But when life happens and I can’t take care of myself and work like I’m supposed to of course JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER PERSON my bank account will take a hit. Even though I finally let a man take lead over my life (trusting him to kick into gear when I needed him to and he didn’t) somehow people have still made this be my fault.  I ended up severely ill during my pregnancy and he did NOT take charge like a man should. He didn’t kick into gear because his motives were not pure. He was not in a relationship because he loved me. He was in a relationship with me because he wanted my money.  Not only was that a mistake to begin with, (me trusting a man with my life) but the mistake was choosing the wrong man in general. Inside of my podcast my message to women was instead of relying on men to set them and their kids up for life financially. They should simply do well for themselves so they won’t need a man. A man is a luxury not a necessity. Women need to make sure in the event a man can not provide for them that they can provide for themselves.


My Response To Tommy Sotomayor Interviewing My Son’s Father Priest “The DEADBEAT DAD EDITION”

As of recently my son’s father who is ultimately a deadbeat played victim on the channel of Tommy Sotomayor. He lied, depicting himself as a devoted committed husband and someone I  mislead.  Claiming that he was trapped. When the truth of the matter is that he was NOT a devoted husband. He and his then estranged wife were BOTH romantically involved with other people. Now he is officially DIVORCED.  He misled me, my friends, my YouTube subscribers, everyone on social media and my family making us believe that he wanted to be married and have children. He drained me financially and used me for money. When the money dried up he jumped ship. Does that look like a trapped man in the pictures below? NO!  In this video below my son’s GodFather gives his opinion. I also respond.

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